What's your number, tell me what's your number. What's your nuuumber.
Thank you Craig David for that little tune =P
Ok, whether you're a man or a woman, the amount of people you've slept with can say a lot about you.
Now I'm not going to tell you my 'number' because whether it's high or low is irrelevant, I am however, going to say that I don't care about how many people I sleep with. That may sound slutty, but in this day & age, people are more inclined to 'try before they buy' and see what's out there. No one should wait around for mr or mrs right.. They should live!
How many people do you know that have only slept with the 1 person? It's a rarity these days.
It's also so hard; you start seeing someone, think it might be kind of serious, have sex with them & then whammo you never hear from them again. And that's where men & women differ.
Men have the theory, get in, get off, get out. And they're heroes if they do that with shit loads of women. Whereas women, if we do it, we're classed as sluts. Double standards much?
I personally believe we are all equal and should be allowed to sleep with as many people as we want, without the judgement. No one ever says to the person who has only slept with 1 person, 'oh wow you must be so frigid, you should get out more' but they do freely give their opinion if someone has slept with several people that they're a slut.
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not saying to go & sleep with every Tom, dick & Harry out there, but if you find someone that you want to sleep with, then do it. Don't hold back, because it's highly likely you'll look back on that and regret not doing it or always have the 'what ifs' in your mind.
It's all about keeping your dignity & respecting yourself. As long as you respect yourself, others will respect you. And also remember, treat others how you wish to be treated.
Anyway, we're in the 21st century, men & women should be equal. Just like I think gay marriage should be allowed.. But that's a whole other can of worms to be opened at a later date.
Till next time,
Taz x
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